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February 27, 2011

Information of the Personal Sort

“Today anyone on the Internet can find out more about what you read, think, and earn than the secret police of Stalin or Hitler could have learned.” – Robert Scheer


I have stalking in quotes because while it is a word we toss around a lot, its definition is very serious.

Stalking refers to harassing or threatening behavior that is engaged in repeatedly. – Privacy Rights Clearinghouse

Because I’m using stalking here in a more informal and less malicious form, the quotes are necessary. The stalking I’m referring to starts and stops at the information gathering stage and never becomes harassment.

I’ve googled myself. I’ve googled my friends and I’m sure you have to. I’ve done so just to figure out what’s out there, but what about googling people you don’t know? Or using Spokeo or another white/yellow pages site? Many people do casual/impromptu background checks on others (especially in the online dating scene) and with arguably good reason. You never really know who you’re talking to. Knowledge, after all, is supposed to be power, but where do you draw the line? Just because it may be easy to find out about people online, that doesn’t mean you should do it.

I think the issue occurs when you act on the information you’ve found. It’s one thing to “stalk” somebody’s facebook and go through their pictures and quite another to look up their address or telephone number and make unsolicited calls or visits. I hope that example doesn’t sound too extreme because I think it happens more often than we think. On a more basic level, I once received a facebook message from a guy who knew a mutual friend and had “seen me around” with the mutual friend. That was a bit unsettling to say the least.


Don’t divulge all of your information – names, social security number, passwords, phone numbers, addresses/locations, and photos. These two tips from Psychology Today are just as relevant for teens as they are for adults.

Remember everything you post online is public. It doesn’t matter whether or not you delete the message or text. If you’ve published it it’s traceable. When you post things online your creating a cyber fingerprint.

Don’t give out personal and confidential information online. Never share your full name, home address, phone number, Social Security number, passwords, names of family members, or credit card numbers.

Consider Evan Raitliff’s story – he attempted to vanish while challenging the world to find him. Not to spoil the story, but Evan was found. His pursuers were able to track his whereabouts through technological means – IP addresses, video cameras, and ATM transactions – but they were also able to find him because they knew about his interests. I don’t think any of the people searching for Evan had any malicious intent, but imagine if they had with the kind of information they were able to generate. The sheer volume is both impressive and scary. Even more daunting? It appears that all the information was gathered legally. That isn’t to say you should be George Orwell 1984 paranoid, but it would be remiss not to proceed with caution.


Not talked about necessarily within my age group, but I think that putting your info out there also makes you susceptible to identity theft. A study by Carnegie Mellon University found that all a criminal might need is your birth date and location to accurately guess your social security number. Credit cards and other financial information can be stolen as well as something as simple as a picture. Somebody could steal one of your photos and masquerade as you or use your likeness to pretend to be another person.


When I looked up my mom on Spokeo and found her cell phone number there for the world to see, I immediately set out to figure out how to get the information deleted. If you know what information about yourself is out there, then you’ll be better equipped to figure out how to take it down.

The bottom line is to be smart about not only what information you put out but what you do with the information you are given.

January 30, 2011

Greetings and Salutations

My mother sometimes quips that opinions are like noses – everyone has one. With the growth of the Internet, expressing those opinions has become faster, more efficient and quite ubiquitous. Letting the world know what you think about anything at anytime has surpassed even written form. Youtube, for example, is inundated with rants and raves.

In an age where what you say can quickly be transmitted, the question of how to behave online arises. What rules govern the ways in which we communicate with each other digitally? Certainly with new innovations, it makes sense that new tools are needed to decide what conduct is or isn’t appropriate.

The relatively new and pervasive access to portable electronics has changed the way we interact in ways both profound and mundane. The rules of engagement on just about every level have changed along with this access. Given that, shouldn’t it also cause us to examine how we use them in polite society? –  Candace Karu

This blog will attempt to figure out:
What behavior is acceptable and which is not

How we can maintain our manners within digital mediums

What happens when common courtesy is dismissed

Obviously (as with anything), there will be differing opinions on what constitutes acceptable behavior. It is to be understood then, that this blog will be a subjective account on the matter of manners across digital modes. Any tips provided (unless those explicitly stated as otherwise) are based on my own set of personal beliefs. The intention is not for them to be taken as gospel truth. My hope with this blog is to offer insights on how we can best respect each other not only online but through all digital forms and maintain civility even when the medium may dictate otherwise.

In addition to recent cases of cyberbullying, issues surrounding anonymity/identity and privacy (Tyler Clementi) are also brought into an already complicated equation. Vicious comments that may start out online can be transferred into the real world through text messages and phone calls. On the other hand, the opposite may be true. Disputes begun in the real world may take on a life of their own once introduced to digital mediums. These issues are particularly important to resolve as children are growing up in a world where technology dominates their communication.

I am, of course, not the first person interested in this topic or willing to provide some friendly tips either serious or sarcastic. That others are invested in the motion of maintaining digital decorum is encouraging. Hopefully this blog will just be on addition to an ever growing and changing discussion that we can all be a part of.